Feeling quite good today, and have done for the last three days. 🙂 This is good. Progress? Notably am thinking a lot about the future and feeling positive about it. This is a big change and a welcome one.
Of course now that am feeling a bit better the guilt about being off work on sick leave intensifies. I shouldn’t really be sitting here on a Monday morning while my colleagues are busting their asses. My therapist says I should stop trying to take responsibility for my work team and take some responsibility for my health and my recovery.
She’s on to me. Obviously she is a trained professional in the ways of the mind and therefore has figured out that I will respond well to this challenge. So, instead of sick leave being something nice and kind that I should do to my frazzled brain it is something that I SHOULD do, in fact, have responsibility to do. This speaks to the girl guide inside. She’s got me.
Have started on 150mg of Effexor. Apparently the 75mg, although a bastard for the dizziness, was quite a piddly dose so I am now on the 150. The tablets look a bit like something you would worm a dog with but it’s what’s inside that counts.
Now here’s the funny thing, I haven’t been dizzy at all since I doubled the dose. Result. I think it’s because it is a slow release tablet. I’m impressed.
I also feel a little bit high. Chitty chatty bouncy high. However this is not something I am going to complain about, given the circumstances.
So much better is my dizziness that on Saturday I succeeded in that challenge to the dizzy and off- balance- bikram yoga. 38 degree room. Changing postures frequently. Mirrors and scantily clad bodies all around. It’s probably not the best environment for an anorexic depressed woman with hypotension. But I stuck it out and didn’t feel dizzy once!
Ok we need to tackle that word anorexia. I’m not going to go into too much because it’s a bit exhausting. Here are some truths about my eating disorder:
1. I have a long term relationship with bulimia, it’s an on-off thing. It’s a bit like this bad-guy boyfriend who you know is bad for you but every now and then you run back and then beat yourself up about the next day.
2. I ruminate a lot about what I am eating, my size, how fit I am, comparing myself etc. See above.
3. I have been feeling depressed for about 7 months now and part of that is a loss of appetite…a loss of will to look after myself, and at its worst points, a desire to diminish. I can’t describe it a better way other than to say I wanted to decrease. To take up less space. To fade a little away from things. A response to not wanting to cope anymore.
4. Now if you jumble all three points together you get where I am now. My mood is a bit better in that I am now trying to get better, move towards something. But the eating disorder still serves a purpose. Remember that I am still the person who has had a disordered approach to food, but now I have discovered within myself a capacity to deny. To restrict. To be skinny. To be fair, I was never overweight- always slim. But now I am skinny. The smallest size in the shop. There is a dark obsession with that. Something that makes my eyes gleam. A coveted thing. I am fiercely protective over this and will not give it up.
On a knife edge again then. Between safe and dodgy. Healthy and sliding downhill. What if life gets tough again. What if depression and anxiety come back with a vengeance.
Not out of the woods yet.
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